Breakups are definitely not anything that someone would look forward to. When you have found the girl that you love and you think that you are going to be with her for a long time, it really throws you for a loop when she ends up breaking up with you. All you really want to do is to get a second chance at romance with her, but for some reason, it just does not seem to be working out that way.
At this point, you can either give up on getting back with her, OR, you can learn the tricks and tips that REALLY work to get a second chance romance with your ex-girlfriend. My guess is that you would wan the second choice to happen. After all, you are not going to just give up on her when you really love her, are you?
Here are some tips to get her back that will help you have that second chance romance with your ex-girlfriend:
1. Don't make it seem like you are desperate to get her back. When you appear to be desperate to get her back, you would think that this would make her see that you are for real and make her want to give you a second chance. But, it does the OPPOSITE. It makes her find you less attractive and if she is losing attraction for you, she is not going to want to get back with you.
2. Don't try and blame her for the breakup. Even if you kind of feel that it IS her fault, you don't want to try and use that as a way to get her back. Trust me, it's not going to work out at all if you do this. All she is going to feel is resentment, and when you your ex-girlfriend feels resentment for you, she is not at all going to want to give things a second chance.
3. Don't try to get a second chance with your ex without having a plan to get her back. If you are the kind of guy that would rather be stubborn and do it alone instead of with a plan that WORKS to get her back, you might want to rethink that for a minute. All the pride in the world is not going to replace what you really want, which is to have your girlfriend back in YOUR life and not with some other guy
